Lindy
has an incredible ear for music. She sings on pitch and remembers words and
tempos and understands songs on a level seemingly too deep for a three year
old. She is also a bit of a terrorist when it comes to what she wants to hear
when we are driving somewhere in the car. Driving
with her is like having a DJ on speed in the backseat. Who likes the repeat
button. A lot. So lately I have decided that I am no longer going to continue
to play her songs over and over just to keep her from screaming about it. I
know, I’m just that kind of parent…the mean kind. I’ve taken to playing what
she wants, but only if she asks politely and only once, maybe twice. And if she
starts to fuss I turn her stuff off and put mine on.
I listen to Christian music nearly exclusively and she knows those songs and
loves them, too.
So,
earlier this week I was driving her to school and she became unhappy about
something and started to have a tantrum so I waited to put her music on until
she quit fussing. The song I had on the cd was “Jesus Saves”…a beautiful
arrangement…and Lindy usually belts it out with her hands raised and eyes to
heaven. (It actually is so beautiful to see her in my rearview when she does
that…) This particular day, though, she was very unhappy and I could hear her
over the music in the back wailing, “Noooooo He doesn’t! Noooooo He doesn’t! He
doesn’t save!!! Turn this off!!!” I laughed and laughed and told Kevin about it
later and he laughed too, knowing that she really was just wanting what she
wanted and was trying to get me to give it to her.
But God was not done teaching me with this yet. That
whole interaction has rolled around in my heart and mind all day today. What a
comparison I can draw between my interaction with my child and God’s
interactions with me! When I am happy with life as God sees fit to provide it,
I am singing and singing, hands raised, eyes to heaven, 'Jesus Saves!' Content,
satisfied, happy…it is so easy to remember. But how often do I find myself
unhappy with life as God sees fit to provide it, or more accurately, do I fail
to trust Him in what He provides? During those times do I sing praising His
salvation? Sometimes, yes. Other times, no. When I’ve not been content I’ve
pitched my own kind of fits…ingratitude, irritability, resentment, substance
abuse, self pity, futile attempts at changing things to fit what I believe I
need…and in so doing I’ve said with my life, ‘Nooooo He doesn’t! He doesn’t
save!!!!’ And cut myself off from the
blessings He wants to give and the trust He desires I have in His providence.
I hope and pray that as God grows me up I will
choose more often than not to praise His salvation no matter what the
circumstances in my life. No matter what God has playing on the radio of my
life. All of His songs are to my benefit and all of His music is to His glory.
I want to be part of the chorus of His praise and gratitude for the grace and
love He pours out on His children, rather than be the notes of dissention and
discord that cause the listeners to cringe.
I am
so thankful that no matter what I think or don’t think, sing or don’t sing, feel or
don’t feel, do or don’t do, indeed Jesus does save. Once for all. He is mighty
to save! I am so thankful that my circumstances, (or my perception of them) don’t determine my salvation.
The grace and mercy and love of the God of heaven and the sacrifice and
resurrection of His precious Son determine everything. And I’m thankful that He
chose me to participate in that grace and has given me the gift of passing it
on.